Mummy Daddy dilemma

It is always so difficult for children to know who to listen to. I spend all hours with Isabella and then when Daddy comes in and changes things it can be quite disruptive. It is very important to remain united when it is relevant but also to be flexible. Basically I am saying take each incident on its own merit and see what happens. None of us have all the answers, although I do have the odd friend who thinks they do! Parenting is soooooo tough. But Iwouldn't change it for the world.